Bismillahi assalamu alaikum,
WISDOM
When the sun went down through the horizon of heart
It ended and Only Allah knows best about the truth
- Last verse of Mathnavi
Only Allah knows best what particular wisdom can be in a particular affair at a given time
The main object of all knowledge is to attain divine love. Apart from that all is mere conceit.
Him on whom Allah's grace shines, one day or another he will become Allah's favourite.
MARRIAGE
In marriage, look with eyes of mercy and integrity, for your partner's defects will be revealed to you.
Thursday, 26 January 2012
Thursday, 12 January 2012
Coaching centres
Bismillahi wasalaamu alaikum,
The school my son is studying at present is not up to our
expectations. We have been trying for the past three years to get admission
into the so called good schools but we could n't. Hubby is still on the run
while I have lost hope. To make up for it we thought we should put him in some
coaching centre which prepare children for the competitive exams like NTSE,
Olympiad etc.,
To enrol in these centres they conduct some sort of
screening exams. I was wondering why they should conduct such exams when they
need as many patrons to flourish. The exam centre was like a big carnival with
a huge turnout. Now when the results are out I understand their purpose of
conducting the test. They want to prove how inadequate their wards are in
facing these exams, to the parents and therby hike the fees.
My son had scored
just 25 out of 225 marks which was unbelievable. I have been tutoring him all
these years and I know where he stands. He is quiet intelligent and quick to
grasp new concepts. He did fairly well with the sample papers they had
provided. Well, anyways we are going to enroll him in the coaching programme
inshaallah.
My son was reluctant to go for
this class at first, when he saw the results he was very much
upset and agreed readily to go ahead. The impending academic year is going to
be very hectic for him. May Allah bless him with the strength and patience he
requires, Ameen.
Friday, 6 January 2012
Troublesome thoughts
Bismillahi waassalaamu alaikum
“And say : My Lord! I seek refuge with You
from the whisperings (suggestions) of the Shayateen.
And I seek refuge with You, my Lord, lest they
may attend (or come near) me.”
( Surah Al-Mu`minoon 23 : 97/98 )
Allah Ta’ala created the earth as the battlefield between Adam (‘Alaihis Salaam), his children and Shaytaan and his progeny. Living in times wherein the evil elements and influences of Shaytaan are overwhelming , due to our ignorance and also our weakness we fall prey to the various ploys and conspiracies of Shaytaan. While the fussaaq (evildoers) and fujjaar (the immoral and shameless) are always attended to and accompanied by theShayateen, the pious also become the targets of Shaytaan.While it may appear difficult to contend with a foe that cannot be seen, we have been informed by Allah Ta’ala and Raslulullah(saw) as to how to recognize the enemy and how to overcome him.
What should be understood is that Allah Ta’ala has givenShaytaan the power of whispering into the heart and mind of a person. The whisperings and evil effects of these Shayateen are such, that numerous people have fallen prey to them. what else would one expect in homes wherein so many are watching filthy videos, television programmes or listening to pop and other music. Bad elements draw bad elements. So it is important not to subscribe to what Shaytaan is whispering into our hearts.
One person says that he keeps getting this thought that the Qur`aan Sharief (Na uzu Billahi min zaalik), is an out dated book. It cannot solve our worldly problems, in these modern times. This is not one of those modernists who is asking for a reformation of the Qur`aan Sharief. This is a pious, young person. Another person is troubled by the thought that the beliefs of Jannat (paradise), Jahannum (Hell), Aakhirah (hereafter), etc. are merely fairy tales…that there is no truth in this; whereas his deep hearted belief is that there is a hereafter, a day of judgement. These are not those people who subscribe to or uphold these beliefs. On the contrary, they are extremely uncomfortable with these thoughts. In fact, they want a solution desperately. They want to know how to overcome these thoughts and get rid of them. This very feeling of discomfort and unhappiness is the sign of Imaan. There is therefore no need for so much of worry and concern.
Allah Ta’ala says in the Qur`aan Sharief :
“His power is only over those who obey and follow him (Shaytaan)…”
(Surah An-Nahl 16 : 100)
Shaytaan, however, whispers into the hearts of the good just as he does to those who are indulging in evil. In a Tafseer of Surah Naas, it is mentioned that those who are making an effort towards piety, righteousness and gaining the closeness of Allah Ta’ala and Rasulullah (saw) should also seek protection in Allah Ta’ala from the whisperings of Shaytaan. Shaytaan makes a greater effort to mislead the pious through pride, arrogance and riyaa (show). Just as pride and arrogance destroyed Shaytaan, the same could result via his whisperings.
Allah Ta’ala states : “Verily, those who are the pious, when an evil thought comes to them from Shaytaan, they remember (Allah),and (indeed) they then see (aright).”
(Surah Al-A’raaf 7 : 201)
When those who are pious are affected by the evil, wicked promptings of Shaytaan, then their retrogression to negligence is very temporary. They recognize the influence of Shaytaan quickly and immediately remember Allah Ta’ala. In discerning the reality of these promptings, they are able to distinguish right from wrong.
There is a Hadith which is quoted in Mishkaat Sharief : Nabi (saw)said that if a person is disturbed with the ‘wasaawis’ (whisperings)of Shaytaan then he should read : “Aamantu billahi wa rusulih” –I believe in Allah and His messengers.When the person recites this, Allah Ta’ala will protect him. This is also applicable to those evil thoughts which come into the mind and encourage a person to do something that is Haraam (the nafs too is in the forefront of this encouragement to evil).
When a person discards obedience to Allah Ta’ala and is arrogant and scornful towards the commands of Allah Ta’ala, allowing his evil nafs to lead him astray then he buys humiliation and disgrace. It should be understood that a person is led astray when he himself, chooses to go astray. Allah Ta’ala’s Sifat (attribute) of“Mudhil” (the One who Misguides) is then focussed on him. For the person who wants Hidayat (Guidance), Allah Ta’ala guides him. When a person makes a concerted effort for the same,then he will experience as to how Allah Ta’ala manifests His‘Sifat’ of ‘Haadi’ – the One who Guides. We therefore need to seek protection in Allah Ta’ala. It will be a means of being recipient to our greatest need : Hidayat. Allah Ta’ala will then inspire us on the Siratul Mustaqeem (the Straight Path).
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Tuesday, 3 January 2012
Divine Will
We had planned to go on a trip last monday. Everything was perfectly planned. Hubby had finished all the week's work ahead. The driver was sent on leave.Then something happened and our trip was cancelled. Next day my son and I fell ill, then there was cyclone Thane and lots of disruptions on the train services. Alhamdhulillah, Allah saved us from lots of troubles.
I was pondering over a sad accident that took place on the Christmas day. Of all places, a christian family of 24 members chose the residence of their former employee who happened to be a young, newly married muslim girl to celebrate Christmas. After they had a sumptuous meal they had set out on a boat. suddenly their boat was capsized and all of them drowned except 3 boys who somehow managed to hold on to the upturned boat. The muslim girl died too. Her husband the only other person who survived was held responsible for the accident as he drove the boat. Imagine all the plight he has to go through before he could set himself free legally. This accident reminded me of the hadith I came across a few days before the mishap took place.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: it is not permissible for the Muslims to attend the festivals of the mushrikeen, according to the consensus of the scholars whose words carry weight. The fuqaha’ who follow the four schools of thought have stated this clearly in their books… Al-Bayhaqi narrated with a saheeh isnaad from ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab that he said: “Do not enter upon the mushrikeen in their churches on the day of their festival, for divine wrath is descending upon them.” And ‘Umar also said: “Avoid the enemies of Allaah on their festivals.” Al-Bayhaqi narrated with a jayyid isnaad from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr that he said: “Whoever settles in the land of the non-Arabs and celebrates their new year and festival and imitates them until he dies in that state, will be gathered with them on the Day of Resurrection.” (Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah, 1/723-724).
(The above was quoted by my favourite blogger Mai)
May Allah forgive all our sins and protect us from going astray Ameen.
I was pondering over a sad accident that took place on the Christmas day. Of all places, a christian family of 24 members chose the residence of their former employee who happened to be a young, newly married muslim girl to celebrate Christmas. After they had a sumptuous meal they had set out on a boat. suddenly their boat was capsized and all of them drowned except 3 boys who somehow managed to hold on to the upturned boat. The muslim girl died too. Her husband the only other person who survived was held responsible for the accident as he drove the boat. Imagine all the plight he has to go through before he could set himself free legally. This accident reminded me of the hadith I came across a few days before the mishap took place.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: it is not permissible for the Muslims to attend the festivals of the mushrikeen, according to the consensus of the scholars whose words carry weight. The fuqaha’ who follow the four schools of thought have stated this clearly in their books… Al-Bayhaqi narrated with a saheeh isnaad from ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab that he said: “Do not enter upon the mushrikeen in their churches on the day of their festival, for divine wrath is descending upon them.” And ‘Umar also said: “Avoid the enemies of Allaah on their festivals.” Al-Bayhaqi narrated with a jayyid isnaad from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr that he said: “Whoever settles in the land of the non-Arabs and celebrates their new year and festival and imitates them until he dies in that state, will be gathered with them on the Day of Resurrection.” (Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah, 1/723-724).
(The above was quoted by my favourite blogger Mai)
May Allah forgive all our sins and protect us from going astray Ameen.
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